In today’s culture and economy, debt is something that is almost normal though very disconcerting. Many people especially in the western world have been in it for as long as they can remember, while yet others have almost lost hope of coming out of it.
Money needs to be used with the utmost care & discretion otherwise it will reduce you to a slave if it masters you.
Money needs to be used with the utmost care & discretion otherwise it will reduce you to a slave if it masters you.
Now, whether you are owed or you owe or perhaps are even ‘debt free’, there is ONE debt you will owe for the rest of your life. It does not matter how much you try to pay it or how loaded you are in financial terms, this ONE is here to stay.
Let me say that again, it’s here to stay! You may try to avoid it, but you won't have a fruitful life without it and it’s the only debt that gets more rewarding, the bigger it gets.
Interestingly enough, you will find that nothing really matters in life until and unless you pay this debt and continue paying it.
Let me say that again, it’s here to stay! You may try to avoid it, but you won't have a fruitful life without it and it’s the only debt that gets more rewarding, the bigger it gets.
Interestingly enough, you will find that nothing really matters in life until and unless you pay this debt and continue paying it.
Know what I am talking about?
It is the Debt of Love! – The only debt you are allowed to owe and ironically one that you cannot pay off however much you try to, and the more you pay it the bigger and rewarding it gets. O how convenient!
The scriptures tell us to "owe no man any thing but to love one another" Romans 13:8
Moreover our Lord and master Jesus Christ gave us the great commandments – The Love commandments - St Mathew 22:37 – 39
The debt of Love is a blessing in disguise, a blessing beyond measure and one that requires your honest participation. There are various ways you can participate.
Allow me name a few of this ways to you by the grace of God and I hope you will find them both edifying and uplifting.
The starting point is to never take anything for granted, big or small.
It’s worth noting here that, in life nothing just happens to or for you. There is a purpose to everything including your very existence. The key here is to be very discerning and apt to make a conscious decision to do the right thing.
The other point is to avoid criticizing, complaining, condemning or judging anybody. Instead of pointing fingers and trying to find fault with every body and every thing, being empathetic and lending a helping hand whenever you can to those in need would be more noble.
Yet another one is to show mercy. To forgive and be forgiven is essential if you are to participate in the debt of love. The Lord Jesus Christ in teaching His disciples how to pray said, "…..forgive us our debts, as we forgive those who are indebted to us” St Matthew 6:12 (KJV).
All of us without exception make mistakes and are in need of forgiveness from God and our fellow human beings, and that is done by showing mercy and being loving to one another.
All of us without exception make mistakes and are in need of forgiveness from God and our fellow human beings, and that is done by showing mercy and being loving to one another.
Love is both given and received and you ought to be ready in season and out of season to do both.
Be loving and lovable. I say lovable because you cannot give(in this case Love) what you don’t have and you cannot have without receiving.
So the next time someone is kind to you, compliments you, does something nice to you, trusts you etc, anything they do to show they love you, the least you can do is to receive it! And you receive it by saying thank you from the bottom of your heart. As for long as it is an act of kindness, just receive it and be grateful.
Why?
Because, first of all, you will enlarge your capacity to love when you are open to receive love and secondly, whether the thing being done to or for you is done genuinely or not, as for long as you are grateful for it, your heartfelt gratitude glorifies God and subsequently the act of Kindness genuine or not is then sanctified.
Thus, if any of it was originally meant for evil though it was an act of kindness, it will then because of the sanctifying grace of God, work out for your good. For nothing bad can prevail where God’s glory is manifested.
So, often say thank you at every opportunity and let an attitude of gratitude be your present hour disposition. It works wonders.
Last and by no means least, I implore you to pursue peace with all men as far as it lies in your power to do so. Be humble and acknowledge your mistakes when you screw up at times, there is no harm in saying sorry, in fact it is honourable.
I am confident that if you act on the preceding statements, you will be on your way to owing man nothing but Love. O what a debt!
The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with thy spirit.
Peace & Love
Libs